4.30.2009

The Birth Story









Our little boy is finally here! We are so thankful for God's amazing gift that He gave us and we still just cant believe it is real ha. Thank you to all for sharing in our excitement with your emails, calls, texts, etc. We have truly enjoyed these first few days of his life and appreciate your patience as we get settled in.



Now for the birth story....





It all began Saturday when I woke up with some contractions. They continued throughout the day but would never remain to stay consistent or long enough. My Mamaw Ann and Frank had decided to come on up, thinking the induction was coming on Monday, and so we all went to dinner at the Olive Garden. Throughout dinner I continued to have contractions but they were still too far apart. Once we got home we decided to go for a walk and that was when I knew it was the real deal. We started timing them at 7:32 and by 9:30 we knew we needed to call the doctor. We had walked for most of that time and I think that really made all the difference. During the walk we all started craving Sonic so therefore we went there about 9:00... yes again I was still contracting. Once we returned home Dr Holton did say it sounded like the real deal so we packed up the car and headed to the hospital. Upon arriving we saw the nurse who also cofirmed that she agreed it was the real deal and we wouldnt be going home. This was a big relief for me because I was worried that if this wasnt the real deal then there was no way I could make them if they were more painful ha! Dr. Holton then came in to check me about 11:00 and to my disappointment once I had stopped walking around and sat in the bed, they had stopped. What were the odds? Now going on for over 3 hours and as soon as it was time to see the doc and get things going, they all stopped. So then he gave us some options: walk around more in the hospital, start the induction like we were going to on Monday, or go home and sleep. Well I knew I couldnt just go home and sleep so we decided to go for a walk. We walked from 12-2 and the contractions had returned and were even stronger. I was now at 1cm and it was time to start monitoring Griffin's heartbeat and my contractions. After waiting to see if things would progress more, he decided that we needed to go ahead and have the balloon inserted into my cervix so that it would help thin it out. Let me tell ya that was pretty painful!!! We also decided to start pitocin at this point. This intesified my contractions so much that I was ready for that epidural :) 5:00 am I received the epidural and I couldnt believe how easy it was! It made a HUGE difference as well in my pain, and in fact I couldnt feel a THING! At 11:00 we were excited to hear that the balloon had fallen out now and I was at 4cm. Doc decided to go ahead and break my water as well. I was still feeling so well at this point that once our family started arriving from TN we had them all up to say hello. There were several times that I had to ask if I was even still having contractions because the epidural was working so well.. Halleluah! However after increasing the pitocin they began to get so strong that I began to feel the pressure again. At 3:30 we kicked everyone out and started breathing through the contractions again. I was now at 5cm. 4:45 Dr. Holton said that because I had remained the same for so many hours that he was not hopeful that I would progress anymore and then told us that if within another hour if I had not progressed anymore then we would have to do a C-section. This did not come as much of a shock to me bc I had already prepared myself for it to happen. JR and I talked through the decision and were pleased that the end had finally come and our son would be here soon. We spent some time learning about what would happen during the c-section and then proceeded to just cry in anticipation that we would REALLY see him soon. 5:45- No progress made so prep for C-section began. Surgery began at 6:25 and Griffin was born at 6:33!!! The sound of his first gasp was heard and then about 3 minutes later they brought him around to see us. All we could do was cry- all 3 of us ha. WAS HE REALLY HERE??? JR then went to the nursery with Griffin and they finished my surgery at 7:10. Amazing that they can get the baby out in 8 minutes and yet it takes them 45 minutes to put me back together ha. I then went into a recovery room and that is where I got to hold him for the first time. To look into his eyes for the first time was the best feeling in the world- totally amazing! We all 3 got to our room at 8:30 and that is when all the family was able to come visit. They had already seen the little man in the nursery and JR had showed them his video he took as well. Come to find out Griffin was sunny side up (meaning he was head down but looking up instead of down as we had hoped) and his umbilical cord also was acting like a seatbelt across his chest, not allowing him to move down into the birth canal. Either way he is here and we are just thankful that he is nice and healthy!



The next few days in the hospital were filled with many visits from friends and family and my recovery time. I was so excited to be able to get out of bed at 7am Monday morning and shower. What I was not so excited about was my extremely swollen feet. All the fluids I had received through the birth had now found their way to my feet.. and they looked like elephant feet. Besides that though and of course the typical soreness, I really felt well. Because I was doing so well we got to come home after 3 days instead of staying 4. We came home Wednesday at 10:30am and were welcomed by Cici, Granny Reba, Aunt Jean and Uncle Phil. It felt so good to be at home!!! Now we are just still taking it all in and trying to adjust to the new schedule of being night owls :)




Here is a montage of our favorite pictures of our little man's first 4 days, but if you would like to view all of them visit our picasa at http://picasaweb.google.com/babyisham


4.26.2009

Guess who's here?!?!

Hey all, this is Tabitha posting for Lindsey and Jr. GRIFFIN JONAH ISHAM is HERE!!! He finally made it after a long night and day for mommy and daddy. He was born today at 6:33pm. 7lbs. 9 ozs. - 20.5 inches long. He is such a cutie! Mom and Griffin are both doing well! Please continue to keep them all in your prayers!


Welcome to the world Griffin!! Congratulations Jr and Lindsey! We love you!
GOD IS SO GOOD!

4.25.2009

Time with friends

These last few days we have been able to enjoy some great fellowship with friends. Adam gave us a visit from Tennessee; he and I met on the Philippines trip this past summer and he came to visit the seminary as a potential student. Thursday night we had dinner with him and the Grahams...


and also enjoyed some yummy goodberry's ice cream!

Friday night we went to what we thought was a house warming party for Wes and Laurie, as they just moved into a new house. Well as you can see from their shirts, they had some news for us too! They are expecting their first child in November and I am so excited for them :)


I also got the go ahead from Rachel to finally share her news as well. Our other good friends Jess and Rachel Rainer are expecting their first child too! Her and Laurie are best friends and only 5 weeks apart.. how fun. More babies YAYAYAY :)


4.23.2009

Tuesday, April 28th is the BIG DAY!!!

We got back from our FINAL doctor's appointment today and have never left the office with bigger smiles :)

We had another ultrasound to check on Griffin and make sure he was doing alright in there... and he is. AND THEN... because I have not dilated at all we scheduled the induction! I will go in on Monday night to get things started and we expect Griffin to be born by Tuesday!!!!!!!!

Please do pray for us, and me specifically, as I have never been one to enjoy any type of medical procedures, AKA I AM A HUGE BABY AND HAVE A VERY LOW TOLERANCE OF PAIN! ha seriously LOW! But as I continue to remind myself, God made me to have this baby, and HE is in control. I am not the first person to ever have a baby, and the nurses and doctors deliver multiple babies EVERY single day. So therefore I will be okay :) I have an awesome coach and encourager and I know that with his support I can get through anything too. I mean obviously it is not all going to be pleasant.... but my ultimate thought is that I am doing it all with a wonderful reward in the end.

We are just beside ourselves to know that in just 5 days we will be looking at and holding out son. We will probably be on cloud 9 ALL weekend long in anticipation ha! Thank you now in advance for all of everyone's love, support and prayers.

And make sure to check out Twitter for all the updates. I know there will be one proud Daddy sending out plenty :)

Happy Birthday Katie!!!

Happy birthday to my college roomie, matron on honor and bestest friend!!! I love you :)

Real belly vs. Fake belly

My sister recently reminded me of the picture we had taken when her and my mom had visited back in October. The picture on the right I have a pillow "baby" belly and then of course the one on the left is the real deal. I remember thinking when we first took the picture at week 14, "There is NO WAY I will be that huge." Well I guess I was proved wrong huh? Fun times :)

4.22.2009

Week 40

We have so much to celebrate today.. and I decided to wear my favorite maternity dress to do so!!! I never would have dreamed that we would already be here at the 40 week mark.. it is SO exciting! My pregnancy has been so wonderful these last 9 months and I am so thankful. We have a baby who has made it full term and is very healthy as well, what more could two parents ask for??? As you read in our previous post- our doctor's appointment went very well on Monday. I have still not progressed any further but we are able to see the light at the end of the tunnel! We will go back to Dr. Holton tomorrow and if nothing has changed we will then schedule the induction with the hospital for next week. To think that this time next week I will be at home holding my sweet son makes me want to just dance around scream YAYAYAYYAYAYAY!!!! :)



Please continue to pray for us as we prepare for that special birth day.


It's hard to say for sure how big your baby will be, but the average newborn weighs about 7 1/2 pounds (a small pumpkin) and is about 20 inches long. His skull bones are not yet fused, which allows them to overlap a bit if it's a snug fit through the birth canal during labor. This so-called "molding" is the reason your baby's noggin may look a little conehead-ish after birth. Rest assured — it's normal and temporary.







4.20.2009

Week 40 appointment

Just got back from the doctor and there was no new progress... still just 50% effaced. That was disappointing, however we got some great news to go along with it! Dr. Holton scheduled us to go back in on Thursday, at that point we will be over the due date. If nothing has changed then we will schedule to be induced sometime next week. I do hope that Griffin will decide to come before then so everything can be as natural as possible, but I also do not want him to get so big that I cant push him out ha! SO THIS IS GOOD NEWS! There is a light at the end of the tunnel for us!!! JR says he wont believe it until he sees it though ha.. poor guy has been so excited that now he just has to just try and block it out of his mind :)

4.17.2009

Happy Birthday Mandy and Micah!




Leisure reading

This week I have enjoyed myself some great leisure reading. I decided that I had been reading parenting/child books for so long that it was time to just read for the heck of it! I love love love Nicholas Sparks and have read a lot of his books, but this week I have been able to finish 2 of the ones I hadnt had the chance to read yet... and I was not disappointed! Yesterday it was so beautiful outside that after a walk I decided to sit outside and read and enjoy the day. Well of course me, Mrs White as can be, got BURNT! I was only out for an hour and no I am crazy and didnt have sunscreen, which I normally ALWAYS do. Oh well I needed a little color added to me I guess :)

I plan to hit up the library again soon so tell me some of your favorite leisure reads so I can check them out too! I am sure they will come in handy when I am feeding every 2-3 hours in just a few days, weeks, hours ha!